Difficulties in Life

I must say, marriage is very important it can give us happiness and strength but getting married at a young age is extremely difficult. You need to be responsible and dedicated to your family. You need to find a permanent job to sustain your wife and children. You need to provide their needs because you are a father. Fathers can do everything just to give the needs and want of his family. Being a father at a young age is very difficult, you need to accept the responsibility coming to your life and you need to be hardworking. You should give a better future for your children because that is one of your responsibility.
The story of Footnote to Youth is very disappointing. Dodong is in a hurry to get married but in the end, he regrets. He decided to marry Teang but he didn’t think about the responsibilities coming. Dodong is too young to adopt the responsibility of being a father and husband. A young parent like them have lots of negative effects on their life and their future also. They can’t handle more problems because they are not matured enough to do something serious. Life is very serious that full of maturity.
In my opinion, being a young parent is not easy. If you want to be a good parent, you need to study well, you need to graduate, get a course that you want so that you can take care of your future family. You can provide whatever they want because you are successful in your life. You can handle problems because you are matured already. You do that first before getting married so that your life will not be complicated. If you are successful already, then decided to marry, I’m sure you will not regret it in the end. Life is not easy so be careful with your steps.

“Paghanga”

Naranasan niyo na bang humanga sa isang tao?Ang crush ay paghanga minsan nawawala pero madalas lumalala. Ang paghanga sa isang tao ay normal lamang sa buhay natin. Madalas mangyari yan kaya palagi nalang tayo nakakakita nang mga taong nabigo, nagparaya, nasaktan at umaasa. Kagaya ko umaasa parin sa kanya kahit alam kong wala na.

Hindi ako maganda at hindi rin cute pero ako ay isang masayahing tao at mapagmahal sa pamilya at kapwa. Ako ay isang istudyante ng baitang labing-isa na nakaramdam ng paghanga sa isang tao na binalewala at hindi man lang binigyan ng pansin, ang sakit diba? Syempre ang sakit tagos sa puso kaya, pero nang dahil sa aking pamilya at mga kaibigan nagkaroon ako ng pag-asa na bumangon at humanga ulit. Sa pagkakataong ito, gusto ko sanang magkaroon ng crush na papansinin ako at magparamdam naman siya ng kahit kunti lang,yung may pag-asa naman ako sa kanya. Ano ba tong nararamdaman ko, naloloka at kinikilig na ako sa kanya!pero alam niyo walang nangyari eh pinakilig niya lang ako tapos sinaktan. Ang sakit sakit isipin dahil nalaman ko na siya ay may kasintahan na pala, ano ba yan hahanga nga lang ako yung may kasintahan pa halos mabaliw nako doon ha!. Ito na siguro ang sinasabi nila na pinagtagpo pero hindi tinadhana, hindi ako naniniwala diyan dahil alam niyo ang simpleng paghanga ko lumalala sa bawat tukso ng mga epal kong kaibigan. Lakas ng tama niya sakin yan tuloy nahulog na ko sa kanya.

Akala ko dati madali lang tanggapin na may iba ang iyong hinahangaan yung magparaya ka na lang para sa kanila, pero ang sakit pala kapag naranasan mo mismo at ang mas masakit pa doon ay wala kang kaparatang magalit dahil wala namang namamagitan sa inyo. Kaya kailangan ko ng itigil ang kabaliwan kong ito, yung wala kang crush para hindi kana masaktan dahil masakit isipin na nasasaktan ka pero wala ka namang karapatan. Ngayon, mamahalin ko na lang ang sarili ko at ang mga taong nagmamahal sa akin hindi pa ako masasaktan.